Katy Kram RD, LD     3600 Olentangy  River Road, D4      Columbus OH     43214         Tel. 614 442-8950


Fall 2002

In this issue: Breathing Lessons | Breathing 101  | Groups | Additional Offerings  | Fall Retreat   

Breathing Lessons

Breathing 101:

Take a little stretch...get as comfortable as you can get wherever you are. Place one hand on your belly and notice your breathing. Now on the next out-breath, exhale slowly and completely, letting all the air out of your lungs... really push it out. Notice how the next breath comes in and fills your belly so that your hand floats out. Continue breathing in this way, allowing your body to relax and open so that the air sinks deep expanding your tummy as you breathe in and flattening the belly as the air goes out. Every breath is an opportunity to relax and let go, to move deeper and deeper into a state of relaxed awareness.

Breathing. We all do it. It’s one of those unconscious activities we take for granted. Yet HOW we breathe makes a big difference.

Check it out. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your belly. What do you notice? What part goes out first as air comes into your lungs? What are the

movements like? Are they high and short or low and smooth? Why does it matter?

As children, when startled or afraid, we stopped breathing or we learned to breathe from the chest, high and shallow. We gradually discovered that by breathing less deeply, we could deaden feelings. Belly breathing is softer, more relaxed. The diaphragm is used to pull air into the whole cavity. Babies spontaneously do belly breathing. We can learn to recapture it.

We often think that our thoughts and emotions control our body. And so they can. Negative emotions such as fear, anger, and confusion usually cause the muscles to constrict. The reverse can also be true. By learning to relax and breathe in an open way, we can change the way we respond to stress. With practice, we can alleviate physical and emotional pain by breathing with awareness. We become more alive, more loving, more able to handle what comes our way.

What would it be like to breathe your way through the compulsion to reach for another cookie, or the negative thoughts about the size of your thighs, or the challenge of a buffet table laden with treats? Breathing allows you to center and slow down long enough to make new choices from a place of self-love. It's never too late to learn how to breathe.


“Breathing is the road home to peace of mind,

acceptance of your emotions, and the awakening

of your body intuition. The exhalation of our

breath is a metaphor for our life. If we can learn

to exhale fully and completely, we will become

attuned to the universal need to let go before

 we can truly begin again. Breathing is letting go,

emptying out with the deep trust that the next

 breath will be there for us.”

 

"Come Home to Your Body"

by Pamela J. Free

 



Groups:

Support for the eating recovery journey is hard to find in our externally oriented world. These weekly groups of 4 to 6 people meet for 16 weeks. Benefits of attendance include encouragement, skill building and freedom from obsessions with food and your body. Please allow time for an assessment appointment with me before the first meeting if you are new to Freedom from Dieting.

Eating from the Inside

Figuring out whether you are hungry and how much to eat comes easily for most newborns and toddlers. It can be incredibly complicated for adults, especially for persons who have dieted and/or been shamed about their eating. We will draw on the art of eating with awareness and the science of how food works in the body using “Intuitive Eating” by Evelyn Tribole and Elyse Resch. Join in the exploration of what, when and how much to eat. The first group meets:

Monday, September 23, 6:30 - 8:30 P.M.

Additional Offerings:

Personal Journeys

September 14 - 20. David Grove and Cei Davis will be in Columbus for a weekend retreat at a private home followed by individual appointments during the week. These skilled facilitators serve as guides for persons who wish to explore their personal journey using metaphor and something called "Clean Space." Call 614 442-8950 to register.

Authentic Movement

On Saturday, September 21, Peggy Berger and Katy Kram will offer an introductory Authentic Movement workshop at The Columbus Center for Movement Studies, 3003 Silver Drive. An ongoing Authentic Movement group will be offered on eight Wednesday evenings beginning in early October. Call Peggy at 614 262-3355 for more information or visit the www.being-in-movement.com website.

Eating with Awareness Through the Holidays

On Thursday, November 7, Katy will be offering a class for the Upper Arlington LifeLong Learning and Leisure program on the non-diet approach to eating and how to avoid the diet/binge cycle. Call 614 583-5333 to register.



Don't Diet - Live-It!

This group uses a workbook written with deep compassion by two therapists who have “spent most of our lives in the grips of dieting, overeating, sneaking food” and “being miserable”. Some of the topics include: Outer Solutions vs. Inner Solutions, Thoughts vs. Feelings, Criticism vs. Praise, Emotional Hunger vs. Physical Hunger and Diet vs. Live-It. The book maps out terrain in the journey toward peace with food/body issues. The first group meets:

Tuesday, September 24, 6:00 - 7:30 P.M.

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Fall Retreat

 

October 4-6, 2002

"Moving into Freedom: Body Wisdom"

Don't miss it! Our annual Fall retreat will be held at Grailville Conference Center in early October when the leaves are at their peak. This year we will focus on becoming aware of our bodies as a wisdom source. We will attend to our embodied stories in the context of a universal story and the embrace of the women's circle. Select Retreat 2002 Brochure to register or for more information.